When learning takes place, it is meant to modify our behavioral and make us a better people. Learn to know how best to handle these issues in order to be your dream.
Over the years it has been discovered that school learning comes with its many challenges for some and until these are nibed in the bud early enough the learner's orientation and disposition to learnimg might greatly be altered ultimately.
Studying can be a big struggle when we encounter problems in school, be it personal or academic problem, it can really affect ones performance when it comes to school work.
This post is to let us know that there are ways to overcome these challenges and will also help you achieve your goals in life. Obstacles in life are there to shape you and be a lesson for you to improve yourself.
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Here are some ways to overcome the barriers to your academic success:
1. Good and Effective Time Management;
This for ever student is of great importance. Good time management gives you an upper edge. Balancing your time well can be a big help in doing your school works. Do not let your social relationships take over all of your time, by this we mean both real and virtual social lives.
As too many a learner easily gets entangled and distracted today because of Social Media (SM). Don’t lose sight of doing well in school especially when you have goals in life.
When torn between hanging out with friends and your school work, make sure that you have set a schedule when meeting up with them. In that way, you will not cram in finishing your works that need to be done. Set also a time apart when you can get engaged on SM and be discipline enough to adhere to your timing.
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2. Seek counselling if you’re being bullied
Bullying is a common thing in primary and high schools.Bullying is a serious issue in school, you shouldn’t hide it when you are experiencing it too. You should stand against the people who bring you down. And when the situation really gets worse, do not be afraid to to seek counsel.
When we talk about our challenges it helped alot. Most importantly you should let your parents be in the picture at all times.
They know better and can help work together with the school authorities to help us better than trying to do self management.
Never be afraid to tell anyone, they will help you with what you are going through.
Never be used as a victim and in return do not partake in the act yourself, victimisimg others.
Do not spread rumors about other people and when you experience it too, do not hesitate to stand up for yourself and tell other people. Nobody deserves to be disrespected like that.
3. Show me your friend and I would tell how wise you are.
Friend are very necessary in every life. Having true friends in school is good especially when you need to vent out problems and other frustrations. Have a friend isn't the problem bit having good ones is important.
Choose your friends who do not take you for granted and will only talk to you if they need something.
A true friend will be there for you even when they don’t need anything from you. And a true friend also influences you with doing well in your studies as well as enjoying your social life. Who needs a friend that introduces you to betting games rather than study apps?
Have a friend who is someone you can lean on in good times or in bad times. And of course, someone who will encourage and support you to be better and will be there for you every step of the way. A study partner in school is immeasurably of great value to our learning process. Friends like Jonathan who would help to see to the fulfilment of our greater tomorrow.
4. Rethink, do you need emotional relationship?
As young people we can be very emotionally attracted to some other people. We need attention and one who can share our feelings with us. But as young teen, the question you need to ask is, can you afford to be emotionally involved with the many attendant distractions that comes with such?
Having a partner when you’re still studying can be a good thing * a sme would want you t think, steal others arendoikg same)but it can affect you in a bad way when you have a toxic relationship.
Try to reconsider if it works for the some it doesn't mean it would work for all nor both of you. or it’s already affecting both of you badly. Yiu are not everybody.
Romantic relationships some say can motivate you to do better in school but age wise, being a teen, you can not handle it. No one ever lites a fire in his or her bosom without getting burnt.
My advise is to wait for the right timing not when your mind is fragile and need to be moulded rightly to please God. You are in your formative stage now.
Many who have ventured into emotionally laidened relationship have found themselves making ship wreck of their lives even before such started. There is time for every god thing.
5. Power of positive attitude.
As a man thinks in his heart so is he. Our hearts needs to be guided always for out of it flows the issues of life.
Life can make you feel discouraged and lonely but always keep in my mind that it will all get better in the end. Being optimistic can help you feel less worried and start looking forward to the future.
A negative mind or thinking will not give you a positive life. Life can be really hard but there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Focus on the things that are important and will make you achieve your dreams in life.
Never look down on yourself nor allow any to despise your youth, be an example to all.
6. Let your family in, never live a secretive or fake life.
You are peculiar and distinguished. Different from everyone and special. Never try to live another person's life by copying. Not all celebs can be your role models.
Whenever you’re struggling at school, do not hesitate to open up to your parents or siblings. They know you better than the others. They can give you the right advice and will support you in what you are doing.
Their support alone can encourage you enough to conquer any obstacles you face in school. Family is first after God let them know you and the challenges you face, such as being weak in a particular subject area. They can get you additional assistance other than the school teachings you get.
7. Proper preparation;
Proper preparation prevents poor performance. Nothing can beat a person who is prepared. Organizing your schedule, and having a to-do list can be a big help in doing your school works. Do you have personal time table? How often do you stick to the use of this?
Knowing how to manage your time is an act you need to learn consciously.
It takes discipline ans determination to form this into an habit and way of life.
You can also avoid cramming when you have a list of what project/school work should you do first.
This will also help you to be less stressed whenever there are a lot of things to do. Prioritizing your study needs is paramount towards achieving good success academically.
8. Develop good and working study skills;
What works for your classmates or friends may never works for you. Knowing your need when it comes to studying is important.
A slow leaners must not copy the skll of of a fast learner. Do you understand better when reading in a quite and serene environment than in a noisy place?
People you are the type that do better reading with music? Know your needs when it cones to studying as s student.
Survey what you want to study, read and take a review for better understanding. Read again and then ask yourselves questions.
There are apps you can also use to achieve this but this shall be a focus for another day.
9. Get rid of distractions;
When you are working on an assignment or a project, avoid getting distracted such as using mobile phones or laptops to watch a movie or scroll through your social media account/s. There is a time for everything, you can finish your work on time when you’re not distracted.
Getting rid of little foxes which ultimately can destroy our barns is very important. But first. You would have to accept the fact that those things constitute a distraction before you can even decide to want to get rid of such
10.. Reward yourself.
Self appreciation works. Once you've identify the pace of God in your life then all you do shall be geared towards his glory even when you are celebrating yourself.
When you have achieved something whether it is a big thing or not. You should reward yourself once in a while for doing well. In that way, you would not feel burned out in studying and doing your school works. This can also be your way of relaxing after all the stress you’ve encountered. You deserved it.
There will always be challenges that will come to you as a student or life in general. Applying these ways to your life can help you become less stressed on how you handle problems.
Always know that problems are temporary and they are there to help you improve to become the best version of yourself. And no matter how hard the problems or challenges may be, remind yourself that you are not alone in this battle and you are not going to be stuck in that situation forever.
The battle isn't yours but of the Lord. Rest on His grace, work in His light, study to show yourself approved as a workman who needed not to be ashamed.
All the best in your reaching to the goals
Adeniji A. B
@ayobenini4j
Citadel Project.
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